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The Mirror

the memoir-machine: 30 prompts × 3 pillars (Healthy · Wealthy · Wise), Lifebook-template structure

james loperfido · 2026-06-30 · interview series · McAdams + Butler life-review spine
episodes ship as they are recorded — structure below
// tl;dr
  • 01Three episodes. One per pillar — Healthy · Wealthy · Wise (Franklin, locked).
  • 02Each episode = ~30 prompts in three movements: past authoring → principle extraction → future authoring.
  • 03Output per episode = a memoir-machine deliverable: ~5–10K words of structured first-person material + an extracted principles list (5–10 per episode) + a forward-author plan (3–5 year specific future).
  • 04Lifebook-style template structure (12 categories internally; the three episodes group them).
  • 05Capture format: spoken (Krisp / dictation), transcribed, then edited by Jim. The Mirror surfaces the prompts; Jim talks; the engine assembles.
  • 06Privacy tier: Tier 2 by default during capture (real life events, real relationships, real numbers possible). Public excerpts only after Jim's explicit review.
// 01the_frame// mcadams + butler
"All you need is attention" + introspection.

The Mirror is AYNIA's interview engine. Run on Jim first — the operator authoring his own life-arc into the captured vault so the principles, the loops, and the eventual books all run on real source material instead of inferred biography.

Two researchers underneath the design:

  • 01Dan McAdams — life-story psychology. The "narrative identity" framework. Operators (and humans generally) understand themselves as a story they're telling; the most useful interview prompts ask the operator to surface the chapters, the high points, the low points, the turning points, and the future scenes. The Mirror's prompt taxonomy borrows from McAdams's life-story interview directly.
  • 02Robert Butler — life review. The clinical-gerontology insight that structured life-review interviews produce psychological and operational clarity that unstructured reflection does not. The Mirror is operator life review, run early— not at the end of the operator's career but at every turning point.

The frame is meaning-first. The Mirror is not asking for resume bullet points. The Mirror is asking what the operator learned, what the operator believes, what the operator would do differently, and what the operator intends. The principles file from Essay 02 fills directly from this material.

// 02the_three_movement_structure// past → principles → future

Movement I — Past authoring (~10 prompts). Chapters of the pillar so far. What happened. What was learned. What was earned. Receipts attached.

Movement II — Principle extraction (~10 prompts). Surfacing the rules the operator has been running on inside the pillar. Some written down; most not, until now. Each principle gets the receipt — the experience that installed it — and a confidence read.

Movement III — Future authoring (~10 prompts). The next decade inside the pillar. Specific. The run-it-forward scene; the don't-run-it-forward scene (Ferriss's fear-set, applied here as the negative future). Year 3, Year 5, Year 10 — three specific snapshots in the operator's own hand.

Each episode closes on the operator's one-line summary of the pillar — the sentence the operator would put on the wall if he had to compress the episode to a sentence. The summary is the seed for that pillar's chapter in any future Jim-byline book.

// 03episode_01_healthy// the substrate

Frame: Health is the substrate. Without it, the other two pillars don't run. This episode authors the operator's relationship with his own body, energy, recovery, longevity, and the family-of-origin material that shaped any of it.

// movement i — past authoring · prompts 01–10
  • 01The first time you noticed your body had a limit you didn't choose. What was it. How old were you. What changed afterward.
  • 02The peak physical condition of your life so far. When was it. What were you doing. What did it cost. Was the cost worth it.
  • 03The injury or illness that taught you the most. Tell the chapter — what happened, what you tried, what worked, what didn't, what you learned that you still operate on.
  • 04Sleep. The chapter of sleep across your life. The best stretch. The worst stretch. What broke each.
  • 05Food. The shifts in how you eat. The principle each shift was hunting. What stuck. What didn't.
  • 06Movement. The sports that shaped you. What hockey taught you that the office never will. What lacrosse taught you. What snowboarding taught you. What you carry from the team-physicality.
  • 07Substances. Honest. What you've used. What you've stopped using. What you'd revisit. What you wouldn't.
  • 08The family-of-origin health story. What ran in the family. What you watched. What you swore you'd avoid. What you accept you can't avoid.
  • 09Mental health. The chapter you'd tell only a friend. What you've worked through. What you still work on. What changed when you got honest about it.
  • 10The doctor / practitioner / protocol that moved you the most. Why. What you still run from that experience.
// movement ii — principle extraction · prompts 11–20
  • 11What rule about sleep do you operate on now that you didn't ten years ago? Receipt?
  • 12What rule about food. Receipt?
  • 13What rule about movement. Receipt?
  • 14What rule about energy management — when to push, when to rest, when to walk away from the day. Receipt?
  • 15What rule about substances and stimulants.
  • 16What rule about doctors, specialists, and second opinions.
  • 17What rule about the early-warning signs your body throws — and how you respond.
  • 18What rule about emotional regulation.
  • 19What rule about social connection as a health input — who you spend time with and how often.
  • 20What's the principle you violate most often inside this pillar. Why. What would it take to stop.
// movement iii — future authoring · prompts 21–30
  • 21Year 3 — what does your health look like, in detail? Energy at 8am. Body composition. Sleep average. Recovery markers. The week-shape.
  • 22Year 3 — the run-it-forward scene. Honest forecast if you keep doing what you're doing.
  • 23Year 3 — the don't-run-it-forward scene. What it looks like if you let the current bad habits compound.
  • 24Year 5 — the same three snapshots.
  • 25Year 10 — the same three snapshots. At 50. At 55. What the operator at that age is doing on a Tuesday morning.
  • 26The one-thing inside Healthy that, if you nailed it, makes the rest easier or unnecessary.
  • 27The kill-list inside Healthy — what you stop doing to make the future scenes possible.
  • 28The infrastructure you want around you to support it — coaches, practitioners, equipment, environment.
  • 29The accountability you'd accept — what would need to be in place for you to actually run the plan.
  • 30The one-line summary of Healthy.
// 04episode_02_wealthy// the means

Frame: The means. Money, fintech, capital allocation, the wealth-automation pillar. The episode authors the operator's relationship with money across his life — the inheritance, the working chapters, the deals, the losses, the principles earned in markets and in business.

// movement i — past authoring · prompts 01–10
  • 01The first time you understood that money was a system, not a quantity. What happened.
  • 02The biggest financial win of your life so far. Tell the chapter. What you did right. What you also got lucky on.
  • 03The biggest financial loss. The full chapter. What you misread. What it cost. What you carry from it.
  • 04The first venture (or job) you really cared about. What you learned about the relationship between effort, ownership, and money.
  • 05The chapter on debt. What you've taken on. What you've paid down. What you'd take on again. What you wouldn't.
  • 06The chapter on equity. The first time you owned a piece of something. The first time you sold a piece of something. The first time you walked away from a piece of something.
  • 07The mentors and the books that shaped your money brain. Which ones still hold. Which ones you've outgrown.
  • 08The market regime that taught you the most. What it taught.
  • 09The family money story you grew up inside. What ran in the family. What you absorbed. What you've consciously broken from.
  • 10The deal you regret most. The deal you regret saying no to. (Two prompts in one — answer both.)
// movement ii — principle extraction · prompts 11–20
  • 11What rule about ownership do you run on. Receipt.
  • 12What rule about risk. Receipt.
  • 13What rule about leverage. Receipt.
  • 14What rule about partners — who to take on, who to decline, who to walk away from.
  • 15What rule about pricing your own work.
  • 16What rule about cash reserves and the buffer between you and chaos.
  • 17What rule about the difference between alpha and beta in your portfolio of effort.
  • 18What rule about reading the macro — when to weight it, when to ignore it.
  • 19What rule about reversibility — which financial decisions get the full pass and which get the short form.
  • 20What's the principle you violate most often inside this pillar. Why. What would it take to stop.
// movement iii — future authoring · prompts 21–30
  • 21Year 3 — what does your balance sheet look like. What does your monthly cash flow look like. What does your time look like. (Specific.)
  • 22Year 3 — the run-it-forward scene.
  • 23Year 3 — the don't-run-it-forward scene.
  • 24Year 5 — the same three.
  • 25Year 10 — the same three. The $50M escape-velocity number — what does the day after look like.
  • 26The one-thing inside Wealthy that, if you nailed it, makes the rest easier or unnecessary.
  • 27The kill-list inside Wealthy.
  • 28The infrastructure — advisors, tools, structures, entities.
  • 29The accountability that would actually move the needle.
  • 30The one-line summary of Wealthy.
// 05episode_03_wise// the craft

Frame: The craft. Education, teaching, sales-and-marketing as an applied wisdom, the operator's voice and authored body of work. The episode authors the operator's relationship with knowledge, with teaching, and with the public articulation of what he's learned.

// movement i — past authoring · prompts 01–10
  • 01The first time someone treated you as if you knew something worth learning. Who. What it changed.
  • 02The first time you taught someone something and it stuck. Tell the chapter.
  • 03The book or course that shifted your model of the world more than any other. What it shifted.
  • 04The mentor relationship you got the most from — what the contract felt like, what you gave, what you got.
  • 05The chapter on writing. When you started. When you stopped. When you started again. What writing is for, in your operating definition.
  • 06The chapter on speaking — selling, pitching, presenting, the live room. The performance you remember best. The one you wish you could redo.
  • 07The teacher you became without trying. The first time someone called you a coach or an advisor and it landed. What you learned about your own framing from being called the role.
  • 08The audience that taught you what your work was actually about. Who they were. What they reflected back.
  • 09The chapter on being wrong in public. The biggest call you got wrong. How you handled it. What you'd handle differently.
  • 10The chapter on synthesis — the cross-domain reading, the connections you make that others don't. When the habit started. What it costs. What it pays.
// movement ii — principle extraction · prompts 11–20
  • 11What rule about teaching. Receipt.
  • 12What rule about writing. Receipt.
  • 13What rule about selling and persuasion. Receipt.
  • 14What rule about audience — who you're for, who you're not for, who you walk away from.
  • 15What rule about the difference between performance and authority.
  • 16What rule about reading — what you read, what you skim, what you refuse.
  • 17What rule about being challenged in public. What rule about challenging others.
  • 18What rule about your own voice — when to use it, when to ghostwrite, when to stay quiet.
  • 19What rule about taste — your own and other people's. When to defer, when not to.
  • 20What's the principle you violate most often inside this pillar. Why. What would it take to stop.
// movement iii — future authoring · prompts 21–30
  • 21Year 3 — what's the public body of work. What's the audience size and composition. What's the relationship to the work.
  • 22Year 3 — run-it-forward.
  • 23Year 3 — don't-run-it-forward.
  • 24Year 5 — same three.
  • 25Year 10 — same three. The published books. The institutional position. The platform.
  • 26The one-thing inside Wise that, if you nailed it, makes the rest easier or unnecessary.
  • 27The kill-list inside Wise.
  • 28The infrastructure — editors, producers, agents, platforms, distribution.
  • 29The accountability that would actually move the needle.
  • 30The one-line summary of Wise.
// 06what_the_engine_assembles// per episode

Per episode, after Jim sits and speaks:

  • 01The transcript (raw, full, Tier 2).
  • 02The structured deliverable — past chapters, principles list, future authoring (Year 3 / 5 / 10), one-line summary. Lifebook-style template.
  • 03The principles harvest — extracted to principles.md in the vault, dated by episode, receipts attached.
  • 04The futures harvest — extracted to futures.md, tagged by pillar.
  • 05The book-seed — the one-line summary becomes the spine of that pillar's chapter in the eventual Jim-byline books (cross-ref the Personal Bridgewater book outline).
// 07cadence// three sits + annual refresh
  • 01Episode 1 (Healthy) — first sit. ~3 hours capture; ~5 hours edit; first principles ship to the vault.
  • 02Episode 2 (Wealthy) — month later. Same cadence.
  • 03Episode 3 (Wise) — month later. Same cadence.
  • 04Refresh — annually. The Mirror re-runs against the same operator and the deltas are themselves the next dataset.
// 08privacy_and_surface// tier 2 by default
  • 01Capture is Tier 2 by default. Real names, real numbers, real family material possible. Local model only during processing; no cloud LLM on the raw transcripts.
  • 02Editorial extraction — the principles, the structural summary, the one-line — can be Tier 3 with Jim's review.
  • 03Public-facing excerpts — Tier 4 — only after Jim explicit-greenlights line by line. This is the operator's life material; the operator gates the publication.
// 09cross_refs// the education arc
  • 01The captured-life vault — Essay 01 of this arc — is the destination for the Mirror's output.
  • 02The self-authoring frame — Essay 02 — is the Mirror, scaled to a three-sitting interview engine.
  • 03The fear-setting tape — Essay 03 — fires inside Movement III (the don't-run-it-forward scenes) of every episode.
  • 04The loops — Essay 04 — run on the principles harvested by the Mirror.
  • 05The owl — Essay 05 — is the mark of the operator who's sat for this work.

The Mirror is the autonomist's interview engine, run on himself first, so the rest of the stack has source material to stand on.

// the arc

The Mirror closes the education arc — the five essays behind it build the captured vault, the self-authoring frame, the fear-setting tape, the loops, and the owl the interviews run on.